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Pre-requisites: There are no pre-requisites for this course—anyone may attend. Please consult with us before registering a minor.
Days/Times: Friday 7pm through Sunday 8pm. Ending times on Friday and Saturday are determined by the size of the group. A graduation is held Sunday at 6 pm
Location: Center for Creative Learning Conference Center (directions/map)
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Spaces Available: Enrollment is limited to 12 participants.
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Start Date Location Cost Friday, October 6, 2017 Milwaukee, WI $470 Friday, February 9, 2018 Milwaukee, WI $470 Friday, May 18, 2018 Milwaukee, WI $470 Friday, August 3, 2018 Milwaukee, WI $470 Friday, October 5, 2018 Milwaukee, WI $470
Do you know why angels can fly? Because they take themselves lightly!
It was 1983, and during the previous eight years it seemed that I had done almost every available self-improvement, metaphysical, or spiritual seminar available. I had done est, Mind Freedom, Insight, Loving Relationships Training and many other one-day or one-evening seminars. My parents had been active with me and I had done a lot of "work" with them. Yet, people still said to me, "You're angry." and they often suggested it had to do with mom and dad. I didn't think so and yet I didn't know what to do with their feedback. Then someone recommended that I do a workshop offered in Boulder, Colorado, by the Dreikurs Relationship Center, called "Understanding Yourself and Others" (UYO). I wasn't too keen on one more workshop, yet I was eventually talked into it.
When I returned from Colorado, people said to me, "You're different. I can't quite place it—you're different." The angry edge had been softened by some intensive work on sibling rivalry—my relationship with my sister—during the UYO weekend. The size of the group and individual "turns" supported each student in getting to the issue at hand.
Mine was the rage that started with being replaced at age 3 by another being and the competition between us that continued throughout my childhood. I made a deep shift by connecting with those feelings, expressing them and completing that part of my life.
... people said to me, "You're different, I can't quite place it—you're different."
Well, my friends wanted some of what I had, and within two months we had a UYO in Milwaukee. I went on to become an instructor for the weekend and wrote a facilitator training program for their organization. For three years we had a UYO every month. The founders, Bill and Kath Kvols-Reidler, were in the process of franchising their system and it became clear to me that I would not make a good franchisee. I was too independent, I wrote a lot of my own programs and needed the freedom to do my work, and we all know "you can't sell pizzas at McDonalds." So in November, 1986, I left the Dreikurs organization and, with the help of some friends, wrote a new weekend, named Taking It Lightly. Incorporating the best of what I had learned over eleven years of my own work and intensive study, a weekend dedicated to aliveness and personal responsibility was created. The Center for Creative Learning was born.
Once when writing a training proposal for the State of Wisconsin, I asked a therapist to name some of the techniques used in the weekend. When used in therapy the techniques are called: "Conflict Resolution, Self-Efficacy Training, Assertiveness Training, Individualized and Group Assessment, Gestalt, Attribution Training, System Desensitization Training, Implosion, Psychodrama, Catharsis, Social Skills Training, Cognitive Restructuring, Examination of Lifestyle Convictions and Task and Goal Setting.” From a personal growth perspective, we use Reiki and other healing techniques, as well as New Thought, NeuroLinguistic Programming, and Affirmations. I would describe it as unconditional love, sometimes tough love, going for the bottom line and then making and integrating new choices—all based on moving out of survival into aliveness; out of victimhood into personal responsibility and being safe in feeling and expressing emotions." Whatever it is called—it works!
A major focus of the work in Taking It Lightly is recognizing that we all made decisions as children that were based on what we had observed about how to survive and be loved. Those decisions were also about avoiding pain, usually by shutting down our emotions. As adults, we are guided through life by those decisions, keeping us "safe." However, upon introspection, it becomes clear that those decisions also keep us suffering from the past or in fear of the future, limited in the experience and expression of all of our emotions in the present moment. Through individual work and participating in the group during the weekend, each person has an opportunity to make a new choice and integrate it, freeing up his or her emotions and aliveness. This intense personal focus is possible because each weekend is limited to twelve students and staffed by almost as many assistants and instructors.
The student “team” itself is also an important factor, because a group can do work that is not possible in one-to-one counseling or therapy. Each team is "perfect" in its make-up—in each weekend, the "right" person is there to represent mom, dad, a sibling or other significant player in the scene about the decisions on which the students work. And there is always the safety and support that comes from knowing that others have experienced similar pain and that one is not alone in their pain and emotions.
Over the years Taking it Lightly has continued to grow and evolve. We have learned to allow the students to choose their work and empower them to re-discover their emotions in an environment of safety and support. We have become guides, facilitators and friends to those who do the weekend. It is clear we are all students and teachers to each other. As we continue to grow in clarity, Taking It Lightly is expanding its locations.
Today, the course is offered monthly in Milwaukee and five times per year in Detroit, Michigan. The lives of thousands of individuals, ranging in age from 9 to 84 have been touched and transformed as a result of Taking It Lightly. Communities have been created of empowered people, committed to making a difference by being alive and responsible.
The success stories of closer families, more satisfying jobs, and more enjoyable lives are too numerous to count. Other weekends have been inspired by Taking It Lightly, some offered by other organizations, some are a part of the wide variety of programs offered at the Center for personal and professional development.
There is an abundance of growth opportunities available; as I continue my work, I have become convinced that each has its place and time. Taking It Lightly is a tool for transformation, a unique tool that helps individuals produce quantum leaps in personal change. For many, it has also been a powerful adjunct to their work with a therapist.
I remain committed to my own constant transformation, for I also know that I cannot take anyone where I have not yet been.
In Illusions, Richard Bach wrote, "We teach what we most need to learn." I have often been called to take life lightly, to love and take care of myself, to be honest and ask for what I want, to go for the bottom line and make new choices for my future. Each weekend I am confronted with remembering how much I have yet to learn, and I am kept humble in my teaching. I remain committed to my own constant transformation, for I also know that I cannot take anyone where I have not yet been. I invite you to join me on the adventure of self-discovery. Remember: whatever you are doing, life is too serious to be taken so seriously.
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“Taking It Lightly provided me the opportunity to review old decisions that have been running my life. It opened the possibility of living life as a thrill ride to be enjoyed, rather than a dangerous journey to be overcome. I've done other programs where I found some the gems that I found in the Taking It Lightly course. However, in the other programs the gems were mixed in with junk that I couldn't respect. Taking It Lightly has the gems without the junk. Thank you for the work that created this clean and powerful experience!”
—Patrick O’Laughlin, Senior Software Engineer
“I had a revelation about my family during the taking lightly weekend: I realized that I am loved more than I thought I was. I got a lot out of the course, including a renewed ability to express emotion, lots of support from staff, and lots of hugs. Living with a disability, I was grateful that I was able to take care of myself and not get exhausted during the weekend. Taking It Lightly was a great step, which has helped me prepare for the next steps I will be taking. I look forward to taking more courses at the Center For Creative Learning.”
“The Taking It Lightly course has changed me at a core level. I have taken many courses and attended many self-help seminars in my life. they have been very helpful, and yet something was always missing. The ongoing support from my teachers and staff at Taking It Lightly continues to amaze me. I recommend this course highly to anyone who wants to make a lasting change in their lives.”
“The weekend was a powerful and enlightening experience for me. For the first time since I was very young, I felt loved unconditionally and able to work through and let go all of the things holding me back from being all that I can. If this is the only attempt at making change in your life, you will not regret it!!”
—Rachel Brumm, Social Worker, Milwaukee
“I was able to process a long standing emotional issue where I had been unsuccessful in the past. The ambiance created by knowledgeable instructors provided safety, encouragement and support. I was challenged in a kind and nurturing manner to continue to address my issues. Taking It Lightly also provided an educational component on personal responsibility and the impact of the words we choose to express ourselves. Follow-up meetings and calls were scheduled, so I felt the continued support even before the workshop ended. Fun, laughter, music, dance were also a part of the weekend. Individualized, personal suggestions and goals that I wrote helped me to take the concepts of the course and utilize them in my life. I highly recommend Taking It Lightly to anyone who wants to bring joy into their life. ”
“The Taking It Lightly course afforded me the opportunity to heal a large hole in my heart that I was not even completely aware of. Through the process of the course and support and guidance from staff and instructors, I was able to acknowledge the missing pieces of my inner self/child and address the pain, which allowed healing to occur. Without Taking It Lightly I would still be living each day with a missing piece of my heart and not even be aware of it!”
“I came to the Taking It Lightly weekend on a recommendation and didn't know what to expect, and left with one of the more powerful personal growth experiences of my life. I cannot praise Patricia and her staff enough for how well the weekend went, for the depth and content of the teaching, to organization and the positive flowing of love and human connection everyone experienced all weekend. You all are doing amazing and essential work. Thank you for the many gifts you have given me. Taking It Lightly was an experience I will never forget and the difficult work was worth the lifetime of wisdom I now carry with me. ”
“I acknowledge Taking It Lightly for softening my painful spiritual "stool" and making it possible for me to flow! I was able to get unstuck and free myself from the shame, blame and isolation I had been wearing for many years. The program was more than just a "program" or "conference" or even a "workshop". It was a mood altering does of hope, a dose of reality that I'd never received from any therapy, drug or book I ever read. Taking It Lightly was the bomb!”
“'I was hesitant about attending a weekend because I was a very guarded person. I made the decision to be as open-minded as possible and I will be forever grateful for sticking through with it. My weekend was amazing and made me feel emotionally connected again. When I get stuck dealing with life and find it difficult to take action, I say the Declaration or contact a fellow grad or just cry it out. Because today I know it is okay to do that.'”
“I greatly appreciate the entire staff and supportive community which surrounded the Taking It Lightly weekend. There was a wonderful consistency to all the information provided before, during and after the weekend, the physical and emotional environment at the center, and the consistent and thoughtful care that was extended to everyone. Such diligent and loving kindness is a wonderful invitation to lighten up and dare to love. Thank you!”
—John Bealke, IndianapolisBack to top
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